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Last week, hackers exposed the site’s 32 million users.
Here, Matthew, who asked that his last name not be used in order to protect their two sons, tells The Post’s Dana Schuster his story.
Matthew is a successful, 48-year-old tech executive living outside of San Francisco.
Over the course of five months from 2013 to 2014, his wife — we’ll call her “S” — cheated on him with countless men on the Ashley Madison website.
When I heard about the Ashley Madison security breach last week, the first thing I did was check out everyone who signed up in my neighborhood.
I’m a computer guy, so it was easy to create database commands to say, “Show me everything in the ZIP code.” I recognized six names right off the bat.
I confronted her once more and she confessed that she was back on Ashley Madison, sleeping with married men. I tried to stay with her and work it out for three more months, but she ultimately revealed herself to be someone I didn’t want to be with. The breach, needless to say, made it come back all at once. My girlfriend of one year (we started dating after my wife and I separated) was a little confused as to why I was still so upset. “When you’re betrayed in this way, to this degree, you become traumatized and experience post-traumatic stress disorder symptoms.
” My older son found out about the affairs when he chanced upon an anonymous blog I kept on Ashley Madison deserves everything that’s coming its way. And for those who were caught, you should stand up and say, “Yeah, I did this.
She refused to tell me the names of the other men, but agreed to delete her account.
I assumed that meant we were on the path to repairing our marriage. She threatened divorce and told me how miserable it was being married to me.
Right around the same time we started counseling, my wife’s friend (who, mind you, is a licensed marriage and family therapist) suggested she sign up for Ashley Madison, whose tag line is, “Life is short.
Have an affair.” “She said having affairs helped her marriage, so I decided to give it a go,” S told me.
It was as though I was talking to a complete stranger, some bohemian. “I triggered hard.” People are surprised to hear about men whose wives are on Ashley Madison.